lake What do you think of this man?

I don't see how a situation like this could be the mother's fault? He left the country to avoid child support....it sounds like he's the selfish one and it's his choice not to be in his child's life...there is more to being a parent then just being present...unfortunatley diapers and formula cost money....unless a girl makes a baby on her own...then the father should help provide for his child. He is definatley the selfish one.there